She cancelled our last 2 dates and now it's been a week since I've heard from Minta. She said it was because she's busy with school, but she can't take 5 mins to answer an email?
After fretting all day yesterday that something had happened to her while she was in buffalo I called her cell this morning from work. She answered, and was fine, but I think I caught her off guard. I suspect that if I'd called from a number she recognized as me she would have let it go to voicemail. Since the lines from work show up as a phone number she didn't recognize – she answered. I didn't keep her on the phone long. Just long enough to tell her I was worried, and for her to tell me she was really busy and stressed with school.
I've no idea what happened. She went from being very warm and responsive, to being… well… absent. I've been going over things I said, and rereading emails I wrote looking for a reason, but can't find anything. I imagine next time I hear from her, IF I hear from her, it'll be one of those “It's not you, it's me” cop out phone calls/emails.
If you were still interested in seeing someone wouldn't you at least respond to their emails? I certainly would. So regardless of whether or not I'm dumped I'd say it's a bad sign.
Or maybe she's just really busy and I'm overreacting…
I guess now that I've stopped worrying for her safety, I'll just wait. The ball's in her court, so I guess we'll see what happens over the next few days. I'll give her another week, then start assuming I'm single again. Really, I'm just giving it a week out of hope. I think she's already made up her mind and didn't have the honesty to tell me. Just left me hanging.
I guess she was too good to be true after all.
Fuck, and she has my Princess Bride dvd. Guess I'll ask her to mail it to me. 🙁